As time passes, many couples may feel as if their sex life has become rather boring and repetitive. The first stages of discovery have long been explored and traversed, and sooner or later, it seems like you’re both going through the motions. It can become familiar and therefore unexciting, but there are some ways you can spice things up.
- Erotic massages. The erotic massages in Montreal can be a good idea and the two of you can enjoy massages side by side if you’re feeling a little adventurous. But you can enjoy erotic massages by studying techniques through some diligent online research. You can then practice on each other.
- Watching porn together. Nowadays porn videos are readily available online. For many couples who want to see something new, that’s a resource that shouldn’t be passed over. You can watch together and then figure out what turns each other on. That can give you both clues about what excites your partner.
- Do you know how many costumes are actually frequently used for roleplaying bed games? The range of possibilities is fantastic, as long as you don’t mind a bit of political incorrectness. The classics include doctor and patient, cop and suspect, along with teacher and student. Yes, taken out of context these situations can be rather illegal, but then in the privacy of your own home with consenting adults involved, there’s really nothing wrong about these scenarios. Nowadays there’s a lot of superhero roleplaying too.
- Pretending to pick up a stranger. Arrange to meet in bar, and then one of you can try to “pick up” the other one there while pretending not to know each other. In fact, you can pretend to be married to other people and the two of you are trying to start an illicit affair.
- Try other places besides the bedroom. When the kids are out and only the two of you are home, the entire house can be your sexual playground. You can try out what sex feels like in the bathroom, in the kitchen, or even in the living room. The change in setting can be exciting.
- Try sex at different times. Do you only have sex at night, before you go to sleep? If that’s the case, perhaps you may want to try having sex right after waking up. You can also try to have sex in the middle of the day. The spontaneity can be invigorating.
- Try to not have sex for a while. Some say abstinence makes the sex organs grow more excited for lovemaking. If you tend to have sex regularly and you’re starting to take it for granted, the two of you may want to take it easy for a while. To make it more exciting, the two of you can even make a contest out of it by trying to seduce each other. The winner is the one who can make their partner give up and finally ask for sex!
- Talk dirty. You can do this in bed if you don’t normally do it at all. Filthy language has its place, especially in the privacy of your own bedroom. For real spice, you can engage in sex talk when you’re not together, or when you’re together in a public place where you can’t have sex. You can whisper dirty something’s to each other and see if you can make the other person blush or aroused.
You may feel somewhat embarrassed about doing some of these spicy sex activities, but your sex life is your own business. Stop thinking about what other people may say if they ever find out—and start thinking about new ways to enjoy sex with a partner you care about.
